一个平静而失意的下午,任由电影感动。一个好的电影可能不在于带来多少欢笑,带来多少泪水,而在于它是多么的让人回味,并且难忘。《居家男人》推荐给拼尽了青春换取所谓成功,在摩天大厦下孤单,在地铁人海中拥挤,在泡吧喧嚣后落寞,把爱情与回忆交付拼搏的人们;可能你在宽敞的办公室内享受着成功的欢愉,可能你在迈向成功的路上欢欣鼓舞,也或许最惨的是你在茫茫黑暗的绝望中品味苦涩,都请你看看这部电影。看完之后会发现,有时候“成功”并不是我们所想像中的那样,我们对于“成功”的定义往往没有追随自己的内心,而是盲从了社会的庸俗标准。 而片中让人感到温馨而快乐的是,Jack在可能的另一种生活状态中,在Kate以及可爱的孩子Annie and Josh的陪伴下,又去追寻曾经的美好与平静。因为此时Jack明白了,真正的幸福来自内心的平静,而不是优越与炫耀,也不是金钱与地位,或许忙碌的我们应该看到,至少,获得那一下午的全身心的放松,与品尝自己拥有的。那里,应该有甜蜜的味道。 Kate在Jack找到新工作的时候,对他说过下面这感人的谈话。 Kate: When you got on that plane, I was sure it was over. I left the airport afraid I'd never see you again. And then you showed up the very next day. That was a good surprise. You know, I think about the decision you made... maybe I was being naive, but I believed that we would grow old together in this house. That we'd spend holidays here and have our grandchildren come visit us here. I had this image of us, all grey and wrinkly, and me working in the garden and you re-painting the deck. But things change. If you need this, Jack, if you really need this, I will take these kids from a life they love and I'll take myself from the only home we've ever shared together and I'll move wherever you need to go. I'll do that because I love you. I love you, and that's more important to me than our address. I choose us. 而Jack在飞机场追上要离开去Paris的Kate时候说: We have a house in Jersey. We have two kids, Annie and Josh. Annie's not much of a violin player, but she tries real hard. She's a little precocious, but that's only because she says what's on her mind. And when she smiles... And Josh, he has your eyes. He doesn't say much, but we know he's smart. He's always got his eyes open, he's always watching us. Sometimes you can look at him and you just know he's learning something new. It's like witnessing a miracle. The house is a mess but it's ours. After 122 more payments, it's going to be ours. And you, you're a non-profit lawyer. That's right, you're completely non-profit, but that doesn't seem to bother you. And we're in love. After 13 years of marriage we're still unbelievably in love. You won't even let me touch you until I've said it. I sing to you. Not all the time, but definitely on special occasions. We've dealt with our share of surprises and made a lot of sacrifices but we've stayed together. You see, you're a better person than I am. And it made me a better person to be around you. I don't know, maybe it was just all a dream. Maybe I went to bed one lonely night in December and I imagined it all. But I swear, nothing has ever felt more real. And if you get on that plane right now, it'll disappear forever. I know we could both go on with our lives and we'd both be fine, but I've seen what we could be like together. And I choose us. 当幸福与成功需要你抉择的时候,你一定要问问你自己,你想不想说出那句:I choose us.
我承认我一开始完全把这部电影当作<weather man>的定位。中年庸碌的男人,危机感存在感。笑。可是完全不一样的。他的演技还是一如既往地出色。以及,并不太俗气的结尾。
还是这类温情片或者迷茫中年人比较适合凯奇,这个不用多说。只是这片我感觉还是颇具争议的,居家生活是一种生活,工作狂的生活就不是了么?的确,影片是想阐述人生最美好的东西想表达获得幸福生活的得失权衡,但是谁又能说自我价值的实现以及得到社会肯定就不是美好的就不是另一种幸福了呢
果然单身才能过上高质量生活
凯奇的温情系电影 终于让我对他有了改观。不禁泪目了好几次。金钱还是亲情 事业还是爱情 我觉得其实选择哪个都有可能后悔 大概还是要忠于自己的内心 不是每个人都有同时感受两种生活的机会 所以当你决定走下去 就不要想如果了。
hope the film reminds you to slow down and take a look at the important things in your life when you view it again.
7.0/10 分。2022.09.08,重看,蓝光。一看到男主那满屋的西装,我就想起来我看过了。。。就是忘记了结局。。。三高危害太大了,记忆都不行了,估计是高压下脑细胞开始大量死亡了。。。女主是蒂娅·里欧妮,演技还可以,长相也漂亮,我一直认成了莎朗·斯通。难道我现在是脑残后,眼睛也瞎了吗?汗。。。《新抢钱夫妻》《西班牙女佣》回想起来,我都搞错了女主。她后来主演了美剧《国务卿女士》。
one decision could can change ur life forever, not everybody is lucky enough to have a chance to glimpse at what they have missed in their l
他生气地说“我想让咱们过上人人都羡慕的生活!”她深情地回应“我们已经是人人羡慕的了。”看到这里我感动得哭了 家财万贯怎敌一个无限包容无限宠爱的人呢?
凯奇这部作品可以说是相当精彩的。有时候我们真的是喜欢自己现在的生活亦或是曾经错过的某个人、某个际遇、的另外一种生活?当然这不是一部影片120分钟里完全表达出来的了,很喜欢的片子,剧情+演技4星,个人情感加一星。满分。
romantic drama... aren't you tired?
又名: 住家男人 / 居家男人导演: 布雷特 拉特纳 (Brett Ratner)主演: 尼古拉斯·凯奇 Nicolas Cage / 蒂娅·利奥尼 Téa Leoni / 唐·乔戴尔 Don Cheadle上映年度: 2000官方网站: http://www.family-man.comimdb链接: tt0218967制片国家/地区: 美国
凯奇的温情片里最好看的
我其实还是挺不理解人为什么趋于平凡 等你拥有更好的东西之后 你还会想回到平凡么 还向往么 起码对于我来说不会 更好的工作就有更好的生活 谁不愿意过好日子 用好的东西 人的本性就是贪婪的 当你连温饱都解决不了的时候 拿什么谈爱情
没有看介绍,于是它与我想象的完全完全不同,但是再看一眼海报,确实如此。女主的一些镜头相当令我着迷。两种截然相反的生活,各有各的羡慕之处,这就是座围城,两边的人们一辈子都在羡慕另一边的生活。充满选择,是否知道自己真正需要的是什么,从而更加珍惜。
所谓爱情,就是找到一个任何时刻都能彼此深信"I choose us."的那个人,并与之厮守。所谓成功,就是与之组织家庭,并不遗余力地为之奋斗!
挺好看的,不过我还是选择有钱人生哈哈哈哈,有婚姻也不错,但两个孩子真的不行。放到今天可能真的不符合现在的价值观了,明显两个人都有钱的人生更好啊!女主超美
一个人要拖垮另一个人的借口永远是爱情
鹣鲽情深。
NicolasCage的温情之作,非常喜欢!人生总有很多种选择,但是没有重来一次的机会,珍惜,切珍惜
如果这个世界上存在平行世界的话会怎么样?你是选择“法拉利”杰克还是“卖轮胎”的杰克?是想要呼风唤雨的生活还是平淡如水的真实?是想要大权在握还是妻儿绕膝?然而唯一能肯定的是,你只能选择其一,而永远艳羡另一种生活。