蹩脚英语

没有跌宕起伏的情节

没有大起大伏的脉络

连女主都没有火辣身材

只有女性感兴趣的小帅哥

细腻入微的情感刻画。



搭讪的法国男人怎么就不猥亵，反而体贴呐~~~

 
it's the first weekend i spend one hour and half to finish this movie which i left midway several weeks ago.
very romantic. i poured myself a glass of water and began to reminisce the acquaintance i've made with Chris.
the first time i saw him was in the librabry lounge. he asked me whether i'd like a cup of coffee, and i said chocolate. that's the way we found language partners in our university. i pasted up a little affiche on the outsidewall of the Friendship Shop looking for a language partner who speaks english and should be a native speaker. once he introduced himself as a french i was surprised. anyway he's european and spoke english. i was glad to have a friend. you know university life is not always full and most of my spare time was spent with those people. i was grateful that this university offered me such opportunity to enrich my experience with a variety of people, so i tried to make use of this resource.
hey,what's your name? kendra, i know it's hard to pronounce it in french...well,no no, it's alright. (and he tried to say it in french, it still souded queer.) we talked in agreement. and soon it's lanch time. i remember it should be a saturday or sunday, for Semmiss was not busy, but still with a number of students. he bought me a sandwich and i asked for a glass of juice, so the same with him. it's the first time i took a liking for the sandwiches in Semmiss. it's very cosy cafe; most foreign students especially europeans found it similiar to that at home. he said the cheese was good and also the beef, and taught me that if i found the the two peices of bread piling up together too thick, i couldn take off one and it still tastes good. i was interested in paris, and he told me paris women were in dominant. the only thing i found was that he's very thougtful with women and chivalrous. i spent more than half a day with him, and it's the first time i realized that i can talk with a frechman with fluent english.
i went to his dorm one night. he showed me his music and the movies he liked. 2046 was the one he mentioned. anyway as he sat so close to me and habitually put his hand on my thigh i felt uneasy. shortly i said i should go. i used to complain to him that i couldn't sleep well in the dormitry, so he said i could have his key and any time i came to get a sleep he could drop away. as i fell into an embarrassed silence not knowing how to refuse, we were both at pause.
after that i never went to his dorm again, but he still called me sometimes. i scarcely helped him in Chinese. and not after long he moved off campus and rented an apartment near Price Market. he invited me to his new apartment but i always had my excuses. he knew many things about women, even the strange relationship between women and the changing gravitational force of moon and also astrology.
 i still remember once we met by conincidence at the door of the library and he held me aside and said, he'd checked on the internet and knew that next year would be a difficult year for me. he told me to be careful. the fact proved that i really had a close shave with catastrophe during the next year. then we sat outside the library and chatted about something unmeaningful. that's a most beautiful autumn day. i truly deeply impressed by his expression of "i'd like to keep sunshine in my eyes".
later we met less and even null. his name was Christopher. i suggested that if he'd like "克里斯" was a cool Chinese name, so the other day he showed me his passport. it was "克里斯" on it. i smiled.
it's really a long time before we met again. when we first made acquaintance with each other, i used to run into him three times in a day, which he said was indeed lot or luck. the last time i saw him was the spring of the next year. i came back from a korean student's home and rode on the campus. outside the football field we saw each other. i knew i was kind of avoiding him for quite a long time, but soon i realised this was the last time we met. i was graduating and he's also moving somewhere else. he said maybe he's going to Xinjiang, where there're a lot of beautiful girls. we both laughed.
he worked with Phillips. and we lost contact after that. he didn't show up at my graduation ceremony with flowers.
later i left Peking...

女人到了30岁，如果还是单身，都会开始变得神经质起来。
有的人选择乐观地神经质，有的人则选择抑郁痛苦地面对它。

bj是前者，norah应该就是后者吧。
看bj，你应该是开开心心的或者捧腹大笑。
看这部电影，如果你单身，如果你也是那个"唯一"的单身。那么，小心被他刺到。norah其实就在显现出那个你。

她是漂亮的，但是只是一个人独自美丽。
她是那么渴望被爱，虽然她很想掩饰这点。
她是情感丰富的女子，但是很多时候她不知道该怎么维系一段关系。

让人看得很心疼

但是还好，她最后有个好的结局

30岁女人如何？30岁单身女人又如何？
欲求强烈，希望有人守在自己身边，但朋友们都有了自己的家庭要经营，就连上交友网搜索25~45岁男人都会被告知：Your selectiong didn't turn up anything.
她难过，她焦虑，她抽烟喝酒，歇斯底里的伤害自己。

我在午夜2点时看完了这部片子，可能是时间的原因，电影的前半段让我感到压抑。看着Nora一次又一次的找寻，一次又一次的试探，一次又一次受伤害，到最后终于下决心放下一切负担从纽约到巴黎找到Julian，我送口气，好吧，终于还是一个HE啊。
但篇尾Julian的那句 Would you stay with me for another drink? 着实让我心动了下。

为什么需要一个伴侣？记得我的一个朋友说要和她的男朋友分手“和他在一起太无聊了”，我问她“如果分手了会怎么样”？她想了想说“会更无聊”。
无聊和更无聊，你选哪个？
当然，那只是20多岁的我们的想法，30岁会想什么？找个好男人，结婚，生子，有个完整的家庭。
应该说，是要一个归属。

所以，在被问到 Would you stay with me for another drink? 的时候，点头说YES。
心有所属的留在他所在城市里。

女猪脚见多了人，麻木了，kiss都麻木了，不想了，怕又是有始无终~
最后那么好的结局，虽不像真，但喜欢。
-so you like me?
-yes
-would you stay with me for another drink?
-nod
-but you know you're gonna miss your flight?
-微笑闭眼，以后怎样就怎样吧~