性爱自修室第三季

时隔一年半，拥有大批忠实剧迷的《性爱自修室》第三季依然没有让我们失望，豆瓣评分稳稳定格在9.1便是最好的明证。

早在正式上线之前，Netflix就曾非常高调地宣布，《性爱自修室》的第三季将以更极端、更大胆、更开放的方式来讲述主角们新一年的成长与变化。

新的一季，大家自然非常期待留在第二集末尾的悬念要如何解开，阿萨·巴特菲尔德饰演的男主奥蒂斯是否能和艾玛·麦基饰演的梅芙成功牵手。然而，如果剧情的进展给得太过直接，那就不是《性爱自修室》的风格了。

看这部剧，常常有种奇妙观感，明明主角都还在上学，观众却总有类似放假的轻松愉悦。而剧中所讨论的升学、恋爱、友情等话题，不仅是主角们所关心的，也是观众们所关心的。

比起给一个“奥蒂斯与梅芙”在一起的结果，剧集这一季依然将重心放在了学习爱与亲密、认真交往与沟通的过程上。

回望上一季，在莫代尔高中，整个学期在学生们的“性爱歌舞剧”和对青春的庆祝与撒野中宣告结束。立场保守的格罗夫校长被除职，对性的开诚布公与对爱的大胆追求赢得全面胜利。

新的一季，该剧的剧情依然在积极谈性与回避谈性的矛盾上做文章。和梅芙感情触礁的奥蒂斯虽然拥有了休闲的性生活，但他不再做性心理咨询，极力地回避着同学们因为感情与性出现障碍而产生的种种问题。

与此同时，新来的年轻校长看似很酷，想法上却比格罗夫更加保守，不仅对四处谈性的校园风气如临大敌，还添加诸多新规，试图将学校转化成只鼓励学习、打压自由交往的环境。

莫代尔高中的这些变化，在国内的观众看来可能有些熟悉：走廊分左右，通行靠一边；每天穿校服，还不能随心所欲，必须整齐合身；不染发，不化妆，更不能轻易表达对性与恋爱的积极态度……也许有观众会说，不过是统一着装罢了，我们都经历过，但不也成长起来了吗？

但其实，自由穿搭与诚实地讨论青春，是“成长”这个青春大命题下的一体两面。穿衣、染发、搭配是一种对自我的彰显和表达，而青春期对爱和身体的探索，与自我的塑造密切相关。

制服向来都是一种去个性化，而不分性别的制服则是在去个性的基础上，进一步去性别化。第三季的新人物卡尔就遇到了这样的问题，作为酷儿，她穿着女性化的衣服难免会被同学们指指点点，而新校长不断在校服的问题上逼迫她，根本无视她有可能遭受的校园霸凌。

面对身体的变化即是面对成长，面对青春期的爱情与随之而来的性话题，则是为了更加健康地成长。试图用不合适的规则束缚大家，无疑是一种压抑的手段，这会更容易使人抑郁，甚至产生不健康甚至扭曲的爱情观和性观念。

当然，正如爱尔兰《独立报》对第三季的评语，“不是所有学校都像莫代尔”，观众如果将剧的理念理解为“支持青春期的极度性开放”，那就过犹不及了。

首先，几乎没有学校像莫代尔一样激进地性开放，在学生间爆发衣原体感染、在期末表演时放歌词露骨的音乐、穿生殖器形状的服装来表演……相应地，因为少有这样的校园环境，很少有学校需要专门采取措施来打压学生的爱欲。

莫代尔是一个很多情形被极端化和戏剧化的环境，旨在点出成长过程中有关性与爱的烦恼。而与其视而不见，不如正确引导。性教育是生理教育、心理教育和爱的教育，是让年轻人学会有担当、负责任并且能够追求幸福的不可或缺的教育。

巧合的是，前不久上了热搜的“多所高校禁止学生未婚发生性行为”的事件，正是第三季《性爱自修室》所讨论话题的现实层面的一个镜像。

且不讨论进入高校的学生有多少确实从未有过性，完全禁止学生进行探索和认知自己和伴侣的身体，终究过于保守。校园至少应该成为能够支持学生感情教育的地方，因为身体的探索从来不只有关身体，也有关心灵和情感。

在鼓励畅谈性话题之外，《性爱自修室》第三季也在面对现实里演员的成长。作为在观众面前长大的童星，阿萨·巴特菲尔德开始向大家宣告，自己已经不是那个没长大的小孩子了。

前几集中，阿萨以蓄须面貌示人，配合“这是我用一个暑假才留出来的胡子”的台词，将自己与奥蒂斯的成长合为一体：正太总有长大的时候，而这值得引以为傲。

在剧情之外，阿萨的宣传期杂志封面造型也都是蓄须的。看着阿萨成长起来的观众，也许都有些不适应。男孩子一夜之间成为男人了，蓄须、有皱纹、穿西装、脸型变圆，“伦敦F4”不再拥有少年感，变得有侵略性，甚至带油了。

看完《性爱自修室》第三季，观众们可以回过头来再想，期待阿萨永葆青春、不会变老、永远不残，就像期待性生活不加探索和研究就会水到渠成一样，是个小概率的偶然事件。

演员们随着时间变化，长成与观众所期待的不同样貌也很正常，更何况阿萨即便成熟起来也还是年轻演员，离油腻还很遥远。毕竟作为青春性喜剧的男主角，以更大的个人魅力服众才算是真正的成长。阿萨逐渐地成为有性吸引力的男演员，这难道不是好事情吗？

在这一季的末尾，《性爱自修室》再次留下了一些没有解决的剧情线索，奥蒂斯与梅芙的爱情去向、珍的宝宝、亚当与埃里克各自的故事，都没有说尽。但我相信，这部青春剧会在未来继续陪伴我们，鼓励我们拥抱真实的自己。

作者| 蓝詹；公号| 看电影看到死

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S03E01

I think we're alone now-The Rubinoos

Land of 1000 Dances- Wilson Pickett

Gonna make you sweat（Everybody Dance Now）-C+C Music Factory

Hour of deepest Need-Ezra Furman

Oh Yeah-Yello

Then she kissed me-Hello

S03E02

Perhaps,Perhaps,Perhaps- Doris Day

Fantastic Man- William Onyeabor

Dancing in heaven- Q-Feel

Can I sleep in your brain- Ezra Furman

Save a player- Duran Duran

Sound of da police- KRS-One

S03E03

Rock me gently- Andy Kim

Macumba- Titanic

Blank Generation- Richard Hell & The Voidoids

Nails,Hair,Hips,Heels- Todrick Hall/Ciara

The man in me- Bob Dylan

Your party- Ween

Never my love- The Association

Frying pan- Erza Furman

Tender- Blur

S03E04

Don't sweat the technique- Eric B. & Rakim

So much love to do- Scout Niblett

Mysterious Power- Erza Furman & The Harpoons

Shake Body- Skales

La Ballade des gens- Gérard Lenorman

S03E05

Hot topic- Le Tigre

Dressed in black- Sia

Zou bisou bisou- Gillian Hills

Allez donc vous faire bronzer- Sacha Distel

Pump up the Jam- Technotronic

I wanna love- Scout Niblett

The breeze- Bill Callahan

Your young voice- Jonny Muir

S03E06

Under pressure- Queen & David Bowie

Oyejo- Fela Ransome Kuti & His Koola Lobitos

Sweet Mother- Prince Nico Mbarga

Short and sweet- Brittany Howard

Fall- Davido

Joro- Wizkid

Attention- Tiwa Savage

S03E07

Hand clapping song- The Meters

Table for one- Ego Ella May

Oogum Boogum Song- Brenton Wood

Going to brighton- Erza Furman

Breathe your name- Sixpence None The Richer

S03E08

Summer wine- Nancy Sinatra & Lee Hazlewood

Milkshake- Kelis

I get along without you very well- Chet Baker

Save Me- Aimee Mann

Moanin’- Art Blakey & The Jazz Messengers

The ballad of EI Goodo- Big Star

Sex Education has outdone itself once again. Season 3 still managed to bring bold, progressive, hilarious, quizzical, whimsical, dynamic, educational concepts, group of characters and stories back to us.

Spoiler alert!!!

Maeve- the brave

Maeve is one of my favourite characters in Sex Ed. She is a brave, defiant prodigy. She always knows what she wants, sometimes in doubt (mostly because of her shitty family- the irresponsible junkie mother and the reckless, unconstrained brother), she just needs a little push to step up and do the right thing. She cares about the meaning of life, the meaning of being right and wrong, and the meaning of working hard towards a goal. Her socio-economic background might hold her back but she has a lot to offer to the community. Being independent, business savvy and tough to her cohort is just one side of her, she is actually really gentle and aimiable to the people she loves- Aimee, Otis and her family. Don't be too harsh on her, Maeve is only seventeen. Think about all of the bad decisions you made when you were a teenager, besides her socio-economic background totally pulls her back.

I love how she encouraged Aimee and accompanied her to go to the police right away after being sexually harassed on the bus, she was being supportive all the way to the end. When Aimee was in denial, she cleared her doubts and explained the entity of the assault. Aimee shouldn't ignore it, she should face it and manage to resolve it. Maeve was being a really good friend.

When Dex panicked about his insecurities, Maeve explained how pleasure should be balanced on both sides, statistics doesn't matter, what matters is whether both of you are enjoying it to the similar extent. Kyle was right, they really excelled at giving advice.

Another thing I love about Maeve is how well-read she is. She loves reading about philosophy and feminism and thinking critically. She is able to use her talent and strength to achieve what she wants. Books definitely helped her to ponder and grow, even though she doesn't have an intact, healthy family to nurture her, she can manage to find a job and provide herself actual and mental sustenance. Although being bullied, she knows how to tell from right to wrong, helping Ruby to find the bully is more important than figitating on what happened in the past (when she was bullied). She knows the meaning of moving on. This is probably one of the reasons she choose to move in with Anna: " you can never be lonely with the company of a good book." And possibly a cup of really good tea.

When it comes to Otis, Maeve becomes insecure, shy and hesitant. Maybe it is because Otis is her first crush. Crush is always special and unique. Unlike other guys around her, Otis is not sophisticated or insensitive, he is generally decent, sweet, polite and slightly mentally mature. He would ask whether it is okay to make a move or do the appropriate things. Maeve probably thinks he is the sunshine in her 'miserable', insecure life. What she doesn't know is Otis thinks exactly same. Otis will always be there for Maeve, he runs to see her everytime. He waited for Maeve patiently when Maeve went to the abortion clinic and thought it was an actual date (Maeve invited him because she felt safe when she was with Otis). Otis was so attentive to Maeve after she came out from the clinic. If it weren't for Isaac's dirty move (deleting a private voice message on other people's phone is a vile decision), they are probably together by now. They missed each other because of it, when they finally kissed at the petrol station, everything was different- there were Ruby and Isaac in between them. They have been in different places for a while. And this time, they will literally be in different place- Maeve has decided to go to the States to follow her dream.

Otis Milburn

Ruby: "You are good at sex, Otis. But that doesn't mean I want to be seen in public with you."

Otis: "Well, I don't want to be seen in public with someone who is mean and uses people for their good sex skills! I have more self-repect than that. We are done!"

Lots of people were blaming Otis for not saying "I love you" back to Ruby, this part of audience empathized Ruby's feeling of getting hurt, but I would applause Otis for not saying "I love you" just because he could. Their relationships started with casual sex, Ruby was sad about her father being ill and disabled. She needs comfort and a means of venting out. A cute guy who is quiet, adequate, and most importantly, he has a sense of respecting female, was just right for her. He would cause no fuss for her. Otis is a decent, sensitive guy who knows about sex, gender and who would treat people respectfully and equally. He was taught well by his well-educated, well-read, sensible mother. He would ask whether it is okay to go further, which shows respect and care of his partner. The relationship between Otis and Ruby was like two people dancing tango- when Otis was trying to get to know Ruby, Ruby chose to shut herself and her family from him. When she finally realised that she was falling in love with him, Otis wasn't ready. The reason why he wasn't ready was because there was never a closure from his feelings for Maeve, in other words, he always likes Maeve, he said he loves Maeve in the voice message. This love didn't fade, it was only buried when he didn't receive any response from Maeve. He was frustrated, he was angry again with Maeve. Yet neither of them knew the message was deleted by Isaac, neither of them was at fault. Thus he knew that he can't say "I love you" back to Ruby when he still has feelings for Maeve, it would not be right. It is not fair for Ruby, it is not fair for himself, and it is not fair for his love to Maeve.

Hope Haddon

Good morning, Moordale! I am your head teacher, Mrs. Haddon, but you can call me Hope. The first thing you need to know about me is that I used to be sitting where you are now. Literally. I went to Moordale too. I've achieved a lot since then. Two degrees, teaching positions at some of the country's top institutions, and by 28, I became the youngest head teacher in the UK. But the years I spent in this building were the best of my life. This school not only encouraged me to excel academically, but it truly allowed me to find my purpose, which is why it has been so hurtful to read some of the horrible things written about Moordale in the press. I don't know what went wrong or how we ended up here, but I do know, it changes today. I can promise you today, if you work hard and you take pride in your school, I will get Moordale and your futures back on track.

I believe when everyone heard Hope's speech at the asembly, they would assume that she was here to bring hope to Moordale (it's corny, but people need it). Eric thinks the head teacher is cool ("teachers are not cool, but she is!"), Ruby loves her bold lipstick colour, everyone adores her by the way she talks. The speech is absolutely a crowd pleaser. And when she asked to meet Maeve and Otis, she complimented their idea of the sex clinic as "entrepreneurial and shows business savvy", she cares about students' career aspirations and passions, this was something the previous headmasters didn't mention or care. Students love cool, considerate and thoughful adults who would put their well-beings (physically and mentally) in the first place. This was why Vivienne was so keen to become Hope's eyes and ears wherever she goes because she worships Hope and sees her as a successful career woman (also she was determined to get into a good university).

Now technically, Hope didn't do anything wrong. She just did what management would usually choose to do for the sake of the whole picture, which was to get sponsorship and funding for the school, particularly for the students and teachers who desparately needed it. She has to be meticulous about her decisions and be deferential to the Board. The Board chose her to make changes and she needs the Board to back her up. Bureaucracy always exists in a top-down system, Hope just did what she was asked to do, she was being realistic. However, adolescents wanted their individualities to be seen, to be heard, to be unique- idealism and realism don't see eye to eye. After Hope has shown her intention to maintain good PR for the school from the press explicitly, she started to be oppressive, she became harsh on the students' individualities- non-binary sex intolerance, LGBTIQ unfriendly, alien hypersensitivity, draconian on-campus disciplines, naming and shaming the rebels. The antagonism between students and Hope climaxed when she negated Vivienne's thoughts and shamed her peers. Vivienne can't endure her actions anymore. They demolished Hope's idea and system.

Jean Milburn & Aimee

I can't help but sharing Jean and Aimee's conversation, it's very encouraging and heartwarming. Their interactions are just so fun to watch. Jean is such a professioanl sex psychologist. I just appreciate the way that she guides aimee and assists her to navigate through the pond of confusion, self-doubt and complication.

Thank you for reading my article to the very end. I might add more when I watch it again.

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Angel

21/09/24

剧情上主线不明，支线混乱，新角色的人设也很牵强。感觉女校长就一个妥妥的工具人，分明是为了让学生们进行“正义反抗”才存在的。真的完全无法从任何角度理解这个角色啊！就，给人挂大字牌在学校里走来走去是人干的事儿？还有，每个大人角色都超级夸张：都在自欺欺人地维持着体面，每时每刻都处于崩溃的边缘，演员们表情里憋着一股劲儿，恨不得下一秒就要开始表演歇斯底里大哭大叫。就算是以青少年为中心的剧也不必这样丑化和脸谱化成年人吧？ 以及，在内核上，似乎什么话题都要探索，什么价值都要挖掘，却忘了怎么把故事讲好。相比第二季的女权主题，这一季几乎没有作出任何有力量的输出。 尽管极力营造出everyone is in a mess的现实感，但很难引再起什么共鸣了，反而让我觉得很假。什么苦大仇深的原生家庭啦、艰难的身份认同之路啦、爱情与友情的反复试错啦——在这样一个开放自由、课业压力如此之小、课余生活丰富多彩的高中里，这一切都显像个屁一样！很多拖沓、夸张和莫名其妙的地方，看着下头。虽然我知道只要不完结Otis和Maeve就不可能好好在一起，但是为了拍续集这样乱写剧本良心不会痛吗？ 讲真有点失望了。网飞好像很爱拍这种披着精致外衣的浮夸烂剧，乍一看挺好挺惊艳，结果越往下越无聊，虚伪得一批。

网飞的这部大尺度神剧，一拍就是三季。

季季好评如潮。

此剧的剧情尺度太大，灰灰就不详细展开。

不知道在哪儿看的同学，可以留言或者私信。

灰灰会一一回复。

那么，今天我们就梳理一下剧中一些有趣的地方。

01 表白的重要性

爱情这个东西啊。

真的没有人能说得明明白白。

靠感觉。

感觉来了，那就勇敢的去表白吧。

不要留下遗憾。

剧中的女主梅芙一直喜欢男主奥蒂斯。

可奥蒂斯一直不敢表白。

奥蒂斯以前有一个情敌，叫杰克逊。

杰克逊是一个游泳健将，学校里的明星人物。

而奥蒂斯只是一个废柴。

按理说杰克逊这么优秀的人，应该是梅芙的首选。

可造化弄人，梅芙鬼使神差的爱上了奥蒂斯。

这羞辱到了杰克逊。

因为在他看来，奥蒂斯这个连表白都不敢的废物，是不配得到梅芙的。

所以在派对上，奥蒂斯问杰克逊：“你为什么恨我？”

杰克逊回答得一针见血：

没错，他恨奥蒂斯在爱情面前的软弱。

奥蒂斯不配得到梅芙。

可奥蒂斯也有自己的的性格弱点。

他很自卑。

他觉着配不上闪闪发光的梅芙。

不过在第二季末尾，他终于鼓起了勇气，给梅芙发短信表白。

可戏剧性的转折来了。

艾赛克──奥蒂斯新的情敌──把短信删了。

为此，很多观众想把轮椅男艾赛克杀了祭天。

因为艾赛克这个人极端自私，只为自己着想。

没跟梅芙走到一起的奥蒂斯，阴错阳差，跟全校最受欢迎的女孩露比谈起了恋爱。

可当露比对他说：“我爱你”。

奥蒂斯才意识到，他爱的是梅芙。

我想这就是这个剧要传递出来的价值观：

不爱一个人，要早点告诉人家。

喜欢一个人，就要勇敢的去表白，而且要趁早！

人生苦短，要努力活在当下。

02 你，到底喜欢什么？

有句话叫，谁的青春不迷茫。

说的是，很多人在青春期，并不知道自己喜欢什么。

其实别说青春期的少男少女，有人活了一辈子，都够呛知道自己喜欢什么。

大部分人都是随波逐流而已。

尤其国内的教育。

对学生来说，唯一的使命就是──

学习！学习！学习！

在学校里，学习不好，那简直就不是人。

这可不可以叫学习霸凌？

反观这个剧中的老师，无时无刻不在询问学生：

“你，对什么感兴趣？”

对于差生亚当，虽然浪子回头想学习，可仍回回不及格。

很明显，亚当不是学习的料。

但在老师的追问下，亚当说自己喜欢狗。

他养了一只小型犬，名叫“夫人”。

一人一犬，亲密无间。

知道了自己的爱好后，亚当就带着“夫人”去参加了小型犬表演比赛。

虽然没拿到什么奖。

却得到了比赛官方的充分肯定。

他和“夫人”成为了今年最出彩的新人！

而亚当的脸上，也终于多了几分自信。

俗话说尺有所长，寸有所短。

每个人都是独特的，都有自己的闪光点。

而找到学生的闪光点，恰恰是教育最不可或缺的一环。

此外亚当的老爸格罗夫。

也因为父亲教育的失败，导致了人生中一连串的不幸。

他是家庭霸凌的受害者。

在他父亲眼里，男孩子不能哭。

这养成了他大男子主义的性格。

古板严苛的他，对妻子和孩子亚当说话都是训斥。

从来不会沟通。

最后妻子要跟他离婚，孩子跟他的关系也不好。

人到中年的格罗夫，依然过不好这一生。

当心理医生跟他沟通的时候，他发现竟没有事能令他感到愉悦。

而当他回首往事，却发现他唯一得到的爱，只来自于他的母亲。

他喜欢看母亲给自己做饭。

在格罗夫最失意的时候，他发现，自己最喜欢的事竟然就是做饭。

只有做饭的时候，他才能感到快乐。

看来做个懂自己的人，永远也不晚。

对于学霸女主梅芙。

凭借出色的成绩，她获得了去美国当交换生的资格。

一边是与奥蒂斯的爱情，一边是自己的前途。

梅芙毫不犹豫。

搁置了爱情，选择了去高等学府进修。

这就很人间真实。

不像有些国产剧的女主，为了爱情，放弃985，选择普通大学。

人这一生，有些机会，只有一次，一定不要错过。

对于相信有外星人的莉莉。

奥蒂斯还是一如既往的会说话。

他说莉莉是一个艺术家。

他鼓励想象力爆棚的她，去创作更多丰富的幻想世界。

大家都是与众不同的，找到自己的兴趣真的很重要。

而我们的大男主奥蒂斯，也终于走上了他妈的老路。

决定成为一名心理治疗师。

他的确很擅长说话，也很擅长与人交流。

这就是他的优势。

他还得到了母亲的肯定。

最后的最后，还是要夸一下这个剧的尺度。

在国产剧中，学生间里的霸凌和Xing骚扰，都是禁区。

这就会造成幸存者偏差。

让大家觉着青春期少男少女的生活都是美好的。

其实不然。

很多学生仍是校园霸凌和Xing骚扰的受害者。

大家只能在网上控诉。

其实，很羡慕国外可以把这些问题拍出来。

因为只有大家都知道这个事，才能正视，才能规避。

公众号：剧情向

这一季男女主的线我已经不太纠结了 但看到最后maeve去美国 otis又被left behind 真的很为他俩感到惋惜，特别是Otis刚经历了各种内心纠结。但是meave做了个理智的决定吧…

Ruby和otis的线虽然很带感，但是我一直都觉得Ruby不是otis的“the one”。就感觉…两个齿轮没有对起来。关于“i love u”的讨论真的是美剧英剧里的经典问题了😂怜爱Ruby…

Isiic（轮椅男…是这么拼嘛）没有很讨厌他但是从头到尾就没get到过他的内心世界。

更怜爱Adam！！！最后一集看到他参加狗狗比赛，没有拿奖那儿我一直在哭，特别是觉得他爸爸会失望那儿，有点感同身受了。我当时还在期待，Adam一定会拿奖的吧！没想到，这部剧就是这么真实…首秀当然是拿奖希望渺茫。还好有她妈妈和老师在为他鼓掌。Adam不善言辞，但是我感觉他一直在自己的内心世界里挣扎，在自己糟心的生活里挣扎，在找寻希望和方向。Michael也给我同样的感觉。这父子俩还真是像…他们俩最后都找到了让内心平静或喜悦的事，我真的好开心。

Eric真的是特别好的朋友，我很喜欢他和otis在学校走廊里勾肩搭背的感觉。但是他在Nigeria亲了别人，并且不后悔并决定和Adam分手…我其实不太理解。还有，Eric的家庭环境是真的好，他妈妈太可爱了。

剧中还涉及很多自我认同的情节，比如Lily，Cal，另一个BN（我忘了叫什么名字了）…他们和Hope的反抗以及学生高喊的“sex school”让我思考…毕竟从小到大我身边的环境和剧中相比真的是 非常“拘束”。It makes me confused，and think about our own sex education、discrimination、respect…

校长Hope这个角色其实，我个人不是很讨厌。因为我身边不都是这样的大人嘛…只不过没那么过分（挂牌子在身上真的太过分了）。她告诉maeve会给她想办法凑钱那里我真的以为她也是为学生考虑的，但是，可能并没有吧。Hope最后在医院里和otis的谈话又让我心软了…高中生物老师告诉过我们做试管婴儿对于母亲生理上是多么痛苦…每天起床就面对失望与绝望的人，也是勇敢的人吧。

让我动容的还有最后的一个小情节，Jacob对Ola说，you always makes me feel joy。我又飙泪了（好容易哭哦…）

还有！maeve和ameis互相做对方的妈妈的那块，太温暖了，女孩子之间的感情真的好美好。

这一季人物群像做的挺好的，就是感觉反而男女主刻画的没有那么细腻，小人物的支线都比较精彩。

还有，虽然看了三季，我还是要感慨…国内外的性教育环境真的太不一样了（如果剧里演的是真的的话）。实话实说我从小到大还是在被灌输“女生要保持贞操”的观念😂。以至于现在我虽然对婚前性行为没有意见，但是我可能自己不会去突破…不过说这些为时过早，毕竟还是个母胎solo（doge）。

But in my opinion, if some Chinese man can not be that obsessed with virginity, things will be much easier. Feminism still have a long way to go.